Clean Up! Clean Up! Everybody Everywhere Clean Up! Clean Up! Everybody do your share. This is one of the first songs your kids learn how to sing in preschool. This is song is generally sung when everybody is pitching in to clean up the room after playtime, but this could be applied to our adult lives as well. Cleaning up your circle and ridding that circle of those whom are not doing their share is something that we need to do every so often.
Weighing the value of the relationships we have with the people we let into our inner circle can be a time consuming and painful task. One must first decipher the root meaning or common thread of the relationship? Next is that common thread or root meaning worth keeping that person around. People change and change can mean two different things. Change will bring people closer or it will drive them apart. At the moment we recognize that we’ve changed and that the change has effected our common thread we must dissolve our ties for the time being. Cleaning up is not to say you will never speak to that person again it’s to say that right now is not a good time for you to be in that person’s inner circle. Most times this is not done out right, doing this out right may turn confrontational it is more or less done more in a more subtle ways and friends just seem to fade away. So when is the last time you’ve cleaned up?
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